If marriage is only based on love or romance, then what happens if love grows cold? We say that we're not in love anymore. And if it is all up to us, then it's easy to conclude that if one of us fails, the relationship is broken. Both views are based on humanistic underpinnings without roots in the Word of God.

We are far too easily contented with what we contribute or not to our spouse in marriage, and we rarely stop to consider, what we are holding back?